Below are some suggestions for women who chose to stay in the home after separation, or for women in a new home.

• Change locks
• Install smoke alarms, security system and outdoor lighting
• Program emergency numbers into phone
• Immediately report any abuse of restraining order
• Inform those who care for your children and let them know who has authorisation to pick children up
• Inform neighbours of the separation/injunction/restraining order and ask they call police if they see the perpetrator near your home
• Talk to family or friends and let them know the support you need
• Go to a support group, enrol at college or other activities

Keep reminding yourself that YOU ARE NOT TO BLAME